Wow. I read all of the posts. So poor Hoff still does not have a clue what his actual pin weight is. He is buying a truck assuming payload based off of the advertised payload, a number that represents the max possible payload of a bare/stripped unit with a 150 LB driver and a half tank of fuel. His truck will in no way have similar payload numbers.... he will have to wait until it shows up and open the drivers door to gaze upon that yellow sticker of truth.
Once you buy the mystery truck, you really need to get to a set of CAT or other certified scales and drop the trailer in the lot. Go get the trucks axle weights and empty weight as is, after you jam all of your normal personal junk into every storage area, have your tool box loaded like normal and anything else that resides in the truck during your normal life. This will give you YOUR "unloaded" weight. Subtract this from your gross of the truck to get the payload. But pay attention as well to the individual axle weights, they are listed in the silver sticker in the drivers door jam. Take paper and pen with you! Pull off and run in and grab your slip, this should be around $12.
Now go across the lot and back under the trailer that is fully loaded out for a typical adventure. Go back to the scale with the fully loaded trailer and get the 3 weights, truck front axle, truck rear axle and the trailer axles. Now you will learn what that actual pin weight is. Camper/trailer advertised pin/tongue weights are typically grossly low compared to what the user actually sees as reality on the scales. Pull off and run back in and grab your slip, this should be around $2.50.
So now you can see what the rear axle load went to, you can see if the rear axle gross on the silver sticker is exceeded, you can see if the payload (total of both front and rear axles) exceeds the truck gross, you can see if the trailer is overloaded on its axles/tires and you can determine total trailer weight as well as percentage of trailer gross that is tongue weight.
The issue I see is that Hoff does not like the reality that Devil Dodge and others are trying to share with him, instead he loves advertising materials that have little or no truth to the actual machine he is buying (sight unseen). He is also not considering that many of us who haul RV campers load the bed with wood, carry tools, take passengers and dogs and drag along other "things". Everything adds weight.
I just traded my 2017 1500 Rebel for my 2019 2500 Bighorn because of realities and cat scales. I do not have nearly the heavy unit he does, I have an Apex Ultralite 289TBSS that has an advertised tongue weight of around 760 if I recall correctly. My cat scale slips told me that I was actually close to 1,600 lbs tongue weight, and that was no food/drinks, just bedding and the dry/canned goods that stay in the camper all summer. My Ram 1500 was 1,074 payload.... so I kicked it to the used lot real fast and went to a 2500 with 2900-ish payload (per the yellow sticker) and my wife and I changed our packing method so that all cases of water/beer went to the rear bunkhouse so as to lift tongue weight.
I'll be re-weighing the setup this spring with my 2500, I suspect that I will be just fine. I do use a Equalizer 10K WDH/Sway Control, and I did weigh with and without that hooked up on my 1500. This is attached as a PDF below.