I owned Rams for 25 years but decided to try a F350 Platinum Tremor while Ram ironed out the issues on the 22's.
The panoramic sunroof is incredible until I learned a lot of guys avoid using or purchasing it since it has a history of not working correctly being extremely unreliable. I also liked the idea of having an aluminum truck never having to deal with rust issues until I learned that light aluminum weight causes doors to move around in the door jams when hitting a bump, noise in the cab is created from door floating around and rubbing against the seals, and issues with creaking door hinges that's extremely costly to repair. The 10 spd is smooth and crisp but it shifts a lot, has had multiple recalls, and Ford is still ironing out the program. Around 1,000 miles I started getting rattles all around the cab. They finally got so bad I pulled the dash panels and console to see if I could locate them only to learn over half of the plastic hot fuse nibs were missed during assembly causing the panels to rub against one another. On top of that, the plastic is so cheap and thin combined with the fact they use around half the amount of dash clips compared to Ram so there's simply no way to completely eliminate all the creaks and rattles.
I waited until the end of summer to test drive a 23 3500 Limited Mega Cab making sure they had enough time to address the issues they had with the Aisin in 22. The quality of the interior blew my wife and I away with not so much as a stitch out of place. The truck felt like a vault compared to the Ford and was very smooth and quiet going down the road. Overall the truck just bleeds quality. I've owned numerous Mega Cabs and forgot how much I appreciate having space behind the rear seats.
I really missed the confidence and robustness of the Aisin. After owning a 10 spd I can now say without question that Ram does not need one. The Aisin combined with the exhaust brake create one of the best towing experiences available. The Ford was all go with not enough stop. Ram is very controlled and balanced all the way around.
After being out of a Ram for 10 months I was quickly reminded why I've always preferred them and I'll never consider going to another make again. Sometimes you need to appreciate what works instead of chasing the latest and greatest.
The final thing I'll say is If payments are of any concern then you're not in a financial position to purchase. Either pay for the truck outright or wait until you have enough down payment to control what your monthly payment will be.
I don't know. I've been driving and towing with a 2019 Super Duty for a week or two now and I don't see any of this, even on gravel county roads. The cab, doors, etc. feel way more solid and robust than the 4th Gen Ram cab and doors. This truck I'm driving was the last year of the TorqShift 6-speed and it shifts perfectly every time, has excellent engine braking, and from what I hear it's dead nuts reliable. The aluminum body seems to be a plus also, this one was hit by a car pulling into a parking spot which caused minor body damage down to the raw metal on the passenger side in a 18" swipe and it's been like that now for who knows how long with zero rust or corrosion forming on the damaged area. The only thing I don't like is the steering ratio because it's slow as a snail, takes a ton of turn on the wheel to get turn in the front end. Steering needs to be improved. But overall this truck is way ahead of the Ram HD. The power from this thing is amazing too. Just nuts how hard it pulls. I've driven a lot of HD Rams. The Ford honestly just feels like a more solid truck while going down the road overall. Everything feels "tight". Can't say that about a Ram HD with 80k on the clock.
As far as the Ram 4th gen cab vs. 5th gen cab, you guys are crazy. The 5th gen cab is a major improvement. The second row seat doesn’t have that stupid curve in the front of it. The load floor is totally flat. The doors are thicker, safer, and more solid. Even the handles feel higher in quality. There is more interior volume. There is more sound insulation. It’s a more modern exterior design that simply looks better. It was just a full top to bottom improvement. They should have put that cab on the HD 5 years ago.