I'm happy for you to be getting your truck soon!
My dealer has been great at keeping an open communication with me. They were able to get updates on the new ETA, just that they were kept from learning about what's wrong with the truck also.
Ram Customer Care on the other hand is a completely different story, nothing but the same false information.
IMO, there is a natural tension with automakers in sharing information - they want happy customers and they want to grow their business (aka not lose sales). It's very hard to create an organization with the people, tools, and policies to manage the information to optimize customer happiness in every situation.
I also commend Ram for getting the information to the dealer about the build issue. IMO, when dealing with normal, mature adults, experiences and decisions rarely get worse by sharing more information. Unfortunately, the average American is not a normal, mature adult (IMO) - resulting in reactive, non-logical decision making and potential brand damage and more customer service work for the automaker - which wouldn't be required if the information was not shared.
Combine that with the somewhat sinister subtext of the accountants and morally bankrupt executives who will sacrifce customer experience for profit. And we all know it happens - which leads to skepticism and mistrust.
So all things being equal, Ram is trying to do the right thing, IMO. And it likely shouldn't be an issue. BUT - if some a-hole exec is making decisions for their bonus and burmuda vacation, well we end up with a terrible experience. It's impossible to know - but I generally believe in this situation they are trying to do the right thing for the customer. And my opinion is worth exactly how much you paid for it.
Side note: RamCares seems to have gone downhill lately in terms of the value and information they are providing to customers......not sure what's up there.