If all he’s doing is stopping for a minute to switch out a trailer, I agree. Just let it run for the minute or two it takes to make the swap. But it sounds to me, based on what he’s experiencing with the idle ups, he’s doing a lot of low rpm work for extended periods of time. That kind of scenario lends itself to socking the DPF with soot and no opportunity for the truck to get the EGT’s up sufficiently to burn it out. Given the choice between having incessant DPF related issues or replacing a starter, I think I’d pick the starter. In either scenario (shutting down or idling) the real solution here is to make it a point to monitor the DPF gauge regularly and get the truck out on to the interstate for some high rpm / high load driving to clean it out.