First time I have had a truck with either tow haul or an exhaust brake. But, I have noticed that when I have tow haul on, when slowing down, once down to maybe under 30 mph, there is often what I feel as a sort of hard shift from the transmission. Very minor and does not do it when tow haul is off. But it is similar to what I feel when the exhaust brake cuts out when slowing down to under a certain speed. I am no expert at all with all of this and that is why I am considering something like the Banks iDash. So I can easily see what shifts are happening when, in or out of tow haul, and also see when the the torque converter unlocks and locks. So perhaps you are feeling one of the tow haul shifts? IF it was the exhaust brake, I think you would hear it? I do on my truck.