I went thru want you're going thru when I configured my truck and ordered it. I outfitted a bighorn to what I wanted my new truck to be like, then I played with the Laramie trim. After all was said and done I bought the Laramie, and normally I'm a bit of cheapo when it come to buying stuff for myself like a truck.
For what was going to be about $4k more I got leather, vented seats, auto dim headlights, and power release tailgate. The Big Horn was going to have like $17k in add on items versus $4k I added to the Laramie.
I've had seconds doubts of buying the new truck due to the cost, but never about going up a trim level to Laramie. I didn't get the safety package or the trailer towing tech to save some cost.
Outfit a Bighorn and a Laramie go to a dealer and see which price you can live with, sometime rebates are level specific.