That is unloaded, 8-9.5mpg towing our 7K TT w 87. Using 91 octane yields marginally better mpg and power. Brutal mpg as compared to what? A CTD? I had a 2017 Tradesman CTD, it was a great engine, coupled to an emission system that I wasn't comfortable dealing with once the warranty ran out. The CTD was overkill for our 6.5K TT (at that time) and the 7.3 is in no way stressed pulling our current TT or our future target 5er: GD 278BH.
I'm a Ram guy. Having owned a 1500 BH 5.7 w 3.92, that was a great truck, just not enough payload and no option to upgrade to a 5th wheel. The 5.7 (no etorque) w the 3.92 and 8HP75 was a great combo. The 8HP75 is an excellent transmission. The 1500 pulled our current TT @ 65mph without issue, just required downshifts to maintain speed. I looked at a 2500 6.4/3.73 Megacab ("current" gen Ram CC is quite a bit smaller than the current Ford and GM CCs) and was underwhelmed coming out of the 5.7/3.92 and ended up buying the 2020 F250 7.3. The 7.3 makes effortless power (no not like a CTD or Powerstroke) and even pulling a 6% grade (section we routinely tow) for 8 miles at 65mph, I rarely see rpms above 3500rpm. The 7.3 is in a class by itself, for now. However, the 101R140 transmission, is completely outclassed by the 8HP75. Slow shifts, extra downshifts, and holding gears too long after downshifting are a few of the issues I've run into in the past 13 months/23K of ownership. The 10R140 programming is a mess for the 7.3 w 3.55. The 7.3/4.30 masks a lot of the issues and the 6.7PS has so much torque that it doesnt matter. As someone said in an earlier post my dream truck would be a 7.3 in a Ram body with a 8HP75 behind it.
So it brings me back to today, the 7.3 is great but I'm considering coming back to Ram for a 2500 6.4/4.10 combo (2021 truck on order). Smaller truck with a smaller engine (possibly thirstier with less power) than the 7.3. But overall the strong points of the SD are (for me): 7.3, interior volume, 34 gal fuel tank, longer wheelbase and 6'9" bed. The Ram has always been a better value proposition over Ford and GM and the overall product I think is superior too. It looks like I have 14-16 weeks to figure it...
BTW, 12qt oil changes (I did all my own maintenance), 2 fuel filters, DEF, fuel additives in the winter and no heat for the 1st 20mins of winters driving also were factors in me converting from diesel to gas. Diesels are awesome, just not what I need for my current DD and towing needs. As I recall, it would take me something like 15 years to recoup the initial and reoccurring costs of a diesel vs a gas truck.