OKAY !
@Series80
I spoke with AMP research support, they were VERY helpful. after going over everything with them he said the most common causes regarding this kit and issue is with the ground and or the incorrect wire was tapped into. so first is to make sure the ground wire is connected to a body ground NOT THE BATTERY, (foolishly I hooked mine to the battery thinking it was as good as any ground) and for the OBD-II connection, the blue with white stripe wire is always the same, but he did advise that "sometimes" on the RAM 2500/3500 the "TAN" wire is white, it will be located next to the blue wire with white stripe. I Plan to make these changes tonight and will advise.