I am here to report a successful install on a 2019.
First I would like to thank
@Jimmy07 for all the info provided, it is the reason I was able to get ACC working.
Initially I had the same config mismatch that everyone is complaining about - that also got me banned at my local dealership.
I changed the truck configuration per Jimmy's directions but after comparing his truck config with mine I discovered that there were 2 differences. I made the changes and it worked.
Below you will find all the changes I made:
VehConfig 2: Cruise Control Present- NO
VehConfig 7: Type of adaptive Cruise Control (ACC) system present- ACC with stop
VehConfig 7: Full Speed Range Forward Collision Warning Plus System- YES
CustSetMenu 1: Forward Collision Warning CSM Present- Feature 2 - 3 Option
CustSetMenu 2: Forward Collision Warning Single Setting (Warning and Brake) CSM Present- YES
P/T Chassis Net: ACC/DASM Adaptive Cruise Control/Driver Assistance Module- ENABLE
Collision Mitigation System Present - Yes
Forward Collision Warning Present - Yes
Auto High Beam Module Location - IRCM
CRVMM - No
Wish you good luck in getting yours to work, I'm moving on to LKA (as soon as I figure out what that custom harness is)
Thank you Jimmy07