I had the EcoHitch on my 2019 for a while until I went with a full winch bumper. It is winch rated for 10,000lb and is a bit higher off the ground than other front hitches:
I have my old one for sale if you're close enough. I'll even throw in a chrome front bumper with the air dam already cut out. I'm in Tulsa, OK.
EcoHitch front hidden hitch for 2019+ HD Ram. Installed but never used. Includes all hardware. New condition. Fits gas or diesel....
tulsa.craigslist.org
If not, then the hitch from etrailer is a good option.
I'm also a disabled Navy veteran!
Good luck...