So, contacted discount and they are encouraging me to pick different wheels. They said they work with a local truck shop who only uses Fuels because they include hub centric rings with their wheels...and they rarely hear of problems.
Never knew that , but yah...
I then called CJC to pick their brains. They said they sell TONS of method wheels like 10 to 1 over fuels and rarely hear of issues. They encouraged me to drop the PSI waaaaaaaay down and see how it drove. They suggest 50psi F and 40 psi R. I did that, and the truck seems much smoother. I am going to drive some of the roads where I felt the vibe the worst and then see. I have driven it all weekend but only highway speeds where the vibe didnt exist.