Love your truck man.
As far as aux lighting goes, I would recommend doing another kit from CJC, the fog light swap (
link). You could piece it together yourself, not sure how much you'd save. The fog lights can still be put into the AEV bumper and still work with the turn signal (which you can disable via alfaobd if you don't like it).
That way you can get the light down low now, while you wait on the bumper. Then when you get the lightbar you'll have a different color option, while still keeping all the lights down load. Ditch lights would be good but it's mostly good for trail and slow speed stuff, so I'd prob do those last if it were me.
I hear the sport lights are the bees knees but they aren't rated for on road use, the SAE are good, but I hear mixed reviews if they are worth the cash. YMMV.