You would find the big gray connector in front of the fuse box. You might have to lift the fuse box up to access it. It’s the one that the white line is pointing to-
Unplug it and look at the wires going into the connector with the lever on it-
You’re looking for the purple wire with blue stripe in position 9-
Remove that wire and ground it. You don’t have to put the resistor on it if you don’t have one, but you’ll have to change a setting in the BCM for not having the 1k ohm resistance. Just make sure CBC Config I/O Usage- Hood Ajar Switch Signal Usage is set to 500 ohm series and 500 ohm parallel resistors.