I get your argument, but I don't agree with it. It's not like 9 out of 10 people on this forum do some careful financial analysis of what our Rams cost including purchase and maintenance and fuel and then carefully weigh it against other new and used vehicles. I know some may do that, but not many. Instead, we look at what we need for capability, want for comfort or look or performance, and go buy a very expensive Ram.
So your friend, who shouldn't have to be called a moron simply because he likes EV's, bought what he likes, paid what he paid for it. Now he's excited because he charges for free at work. You are right, it isn't free, but if it makes him feel good to drive with zero fuel cost, what's wrong with that?