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You're doing it wrong
They do not have to flash it as the only change is fuel calibration and the tune overwrites it anyway so some dealers have been just skipping the flash and saying they did it for the recall paperwork side of things. I have spoken to a few guys who had the dealer skip the flash no issues and its also what my tuner recommended to save the hassle of trying to hook up a battery charger to flash the ecm upon picking up the truck.They have to flash it. You can reflash your tune in the parking lot after they're done. Many have done so.