What is the weight of that 5er? Since your 2500 hasn't shown up yet I'd strongly consider upgrading to a 3500. Leaf is going to be more stable, have more legal payload, and you don't have to worry about bags most likely. You can do it with a 2500 for sure, but seems like a a non ideal plan.
As for the bags, depending on the weight of the trailer I'd recommend the 7500 airlift as well. It's a pretty solid complete package.
EDIT: Forgot my main point, doh!
As for aftermarket vs OEM. This is a bit personal preference considering the OEM bags are better integrated and have auto-leveling. The three reasons I always advise against OEM bags though.
#1 - OEM bags replace the coils. Because of this, if a bag blows or goes out, so does that side of the suspension. Aftermarket bags are in addition, so even if one blows, you still have some amount of suspension holding the bed, and trailer, up. Do they go out often? Probably not. Are the OEM bags better than aftermarket? Maybe, no clue who makes the bags for Ram.
#2 - Sensor for auto-level on OEM air may nag you for being over weight. That would get on my nerves quick.
#3 - Aftermarket bags are placed inline/slightly outside the frame rail. That will help give you extra stability from side to side movement and overall make it feel more planted.
For me personally, it's not even close which way I'd go.