Picture heavy update finally bear with me if this post looks funky to start.
I have it all installed and verified the cute little orange triangles show up in the mirrors (via alpha, road test tomorrow).
This update includes how to pop off the door, tow mirrors, and wiring.
Pictures that show screwdrivers are best places that I found to pop/pry panels off.

start here

There is a screw (not pictured) behind this plate.

start pry where the screwdriver is

there will be two wires to disconnect if you have driver memory controls, one wire if you dont

pry anywhere on the outside edge for this one.

picture of clips holding controls

remove wires connected to the window/lock controls

there are 6 of these per door and they are plastic they may or may not screw off depending on how everything lines up from the factory.

better picture showing where on the outside edge they are located (remember there are 6)

this just pries off, no effort required.