Ok so I understand what most of you are saying at least with it being overweight. But everyone keep throwing out acronyms I am not familiar with. So I will write as I understand it
My truck can pull a max of 19k
Payload is 3100 (including occupant's and gear in the truck)
Hitch weight can not exceed maximum payload
Aside from this what am I missing, I've seen other post about 10k GWRS or something.
If the total weight of the until is 16k with payload that should put me 3k under my max pull, which I aware the payload will be over, jist trying to use this as a learning lesson to choose the right trailer
What configuration is your truck?
SB/LB? Mega, Crew Cab, 4x4? and Trim level?
What is your payload sticker on the door (yellow tag)
GVWR = Gross Vehicle Weight Rating: How much the truck can weigh total. Very much not enforced for non-commercial.
GCWR = Gross Carry Weight Rating (truck+towed)
RAWR = Rear Axle Weight Rating: The MFR spec for max axle weight. Some will tell you AAM rates it higher but if you break something it's certainly on you and I personally wouldnt' overload the rated spec as it will cause premature wear and tear.
FAWR = I think you get the picture
I highly doubt your payload is only going to be 3100. 20-22% of 16K is 3200-3420 and more likely what your "wet" weight will be.
Your RAWR is 6K. Exceed that at your own risk.
That RV is a widebody, dropframe, fulltime RV and to be blunt, has no business being behind a 3.4T truck.
2500 have inboard coils (or bags) and frankly are not always great at pulling even 12K 5th wheels without at least supplemental bags outboard @the rails where leaves would normally be.