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2021 RAM 3500 Tradesman | AEV Prospector | FWC Grandby
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Side by side: the photo she sent me this week, her face still carrying the softness of those campsite evenings, and one of the simple, hearty meals she cooked right here in my camper.
As mentioned above, a man’s greatest battle is inside - against lust, pride, and restless passions. Like St. Augustine’s restless heart pleading, “Lord, give me chastity…but not yet,” the primitive part of me was powerfully drawn to her exterior: twenty years younger, beautiful, flirty, wounded, and weak as she came close. But the soul formed by traditional Catholic teaching saw only her immortal soul, the one Holy Mother Church alone can heal.
Listening to her stories made it clear: several men betrayed her in the past, took her trust, then quit when life became hard, leaving her more guarded and alone. In holding the line, one deep goal was to reassure her - quietly, by fidelity and self-denial - that trustworthy men still walk this earth: men who will not quit, who choose the old morality, deny themselves, and guide toward Christ rather than exploit.
St. Thomas distinguishes concupiscence from charity: one pulls toward self-gratification; the other wills the other’s eternal good because she is God’s. Christ calls us to put others first - this trial tested me to the core. I cannot save her - only He can. Our mission as Catholic men is to lead souls to Heaven’s grace. That demanded fierce prayer, cold truck nights, firm boundaries, and plain talk of the True Mass and the saints’ victories. Brothers, the primitive pull is strong; grace is stronger. Lead courageously, deny yourself, protect what is His. Pray for her, and for one another in the fight.
As mentioned above, a man’s greatest battle is inside - against lust, pride, and restless passions. Like St. Augustine’s restless heart pleading, “Lord, give me chastity…but not yet,” the primitive part of me was powerfully drawn to her exterior: twenty years younger, beautiful, flirty, wounded, and weak as she came close. But the soul formed by traditional Catholic teaching saw only her immortal soul, the one Holy Mother Church alone can heal.
Listening to her stories made it clear: several men betrayed her in the past, took her trust, then quit when life became hard, leaving her more guarded and alone. In holding the line, one deep goal was to reassure her - quietly, by fidelity and self-denial - that trustworthy men still walk this earth: men who will not quit, who choose the old morality, deny themselves, and guide toward Christ rather than exploit.
St. Thomas distinguishes concupiscence from charity: one pulls toward self-gratification; the other wills the other’s eternal good because she is God’s. Christ calls us to put others first - this trial tested me to the core. I cannot save her - only He can. Our mission as Catholic men is to lead souls to Heaven’s grace. That demanded fierce prayer, cold truck nights, firm boundaries, and plain talk of the True Mass and the saints’ victories. Brothers, the primitive pull is strong; grace is stronger. Lead courageously, deny yourself, protect what is His. Pray for her, and for one another in the fight.
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A few months back I signed up for a Planet Fitness Black Card, which lets me hit any of the 2,600+ locations around the country. When I swing by a few times a week I can stretch, lift a bit, take a long hot shower, and finish with the massage chairs. So far it’s been a darn good deal. This weekend there was a car show in the parking lot next door, perfect weather, so I wandered over to look at mostly ’60s muscle cars. This ’69 Chevy El Camino tricked out with an Idlewild camper really caught my eye - I’d never seen a hot rod and camper combo like that before.
Four Mile Cove Eco Preserve is this peaceful 365-acre brackish wetland in Cape Coral, right along the Caloosahatchee River. The winding boardwalk cuts through thick mangroves and gives you solid shots at spotting herons, ibis, eagles, raccoons, and maybe an alligator or two if you’re lucky. It’s one of the bigger preserved spots around, with a visitor center, observation piers, and strict rules - no dogs, no bikes, just quiet walking. I spent a solid hour strolling the loop trail, taking it easy on the shaded boardwalk and shell paths, listening to the birds and watching the water ripple. It was relaxing as heck - felt like a real break from everything, just me, the mangroves, and whatever critters decided to show up.
After a few weeks of camping and messing around along the Gulf Coast, I got the itch to head inland and see what rural Florida was really like. I pulled out my map, spotted Immokalee, and thought, yeah, that’s the spot. It’s way out in the middle of nowhere, surrounded by farms, and from what I’d heard about 90% of the folks there are undocumented immigrants, mostly working the fields. As this old white guy with long hair, a beard, and a beat-up overland rig that looks half military, I figured it’d be interesting - probably stick out like a sore thumb, but that’s kinda the point when you’re hunting real places off the usual tourist path.
Nights, I started hanging out at the outdoor flea market. Man, it was hot and humid - it reminded me of some of the places I deployed to when I was younger. At first everybody was staring at me like, “Who the heck is this guy?” I just kept showing up, buying food, some fruit, whatever looked good, and actually enjoying the eats - some Guatemalan stuff and solid Mexican tacos. After a couple nights people loosened up. The young men would nod, the young ladies would sheepishly smile. The kids cracked me up the most - they couldn’t stop staring at my beard. Pointing, giggling, a few brave ones even reached out to touch it like it was some kind of weird pet. Turned what started out awkward into pretty fun evenings.
Just seven miles south of Immokalee sits this planned town called Ave Maria, built in the mid-2000s around Ave Maria University by the Domino’s Pizza founder Tom Monaghan as a Catholic-focused community with the massive church smack in the center. Since it was the weekend, I decided to go to the Low Latin Mass there on Sunday at 12:30. Felt right to experience it in a spot built for that kind of traditional worship.
I’m not usually into modern church designs - most feel cold or stripped down - but the interior of this one really took my breath away. Exposed steel beams arch way up high, giving it a strong, almost industrial feel mixed with real grandeur, and there’s this massive suspended crucifix hanging above the altar, throwing dramatic shadows as the light hits it. Flanking the tabernacle are big wooden statues of the twelve apostles, standing tall and serious, with the Blessed Virgin Mary and St. Joseph on the outsides watching over them all. What really got to me, though, was watching the families show up - lots pulling in on golf carts or walking from nearby, the men in nice suits or at least button-up shirts and ties, every woman and girl in long dresses and chapel veils. Everybody looked happy, smiling, greeting each other like it was the most natural thing. Sitting there, I thought, man, this must be what a lot of America looked like a hundred years ago - simple, peaceful, centered on faith and family. Beautiful sight.
After heading south a bit, I spent some time touring Naples and Marco Island - driving the fancy streets lined with palm trees, peeking at the beaches, and checking out the high-end spots. One planned stop was Exquisite Timepieces, this sleek luxury watch shop packed with serious men’s pieces from Glashütte Original, H. Moser & Cie., Blancpain, and others - my goal is to thin my collection by selling three at a time and then treating myself to one new watch. Once again I got the stares; I rolled in looking (and probably smelling) like I’d been sleeping rough along the coast and out by the Everglades - long hair tangled, beard wild, clothes from days on the trail - and a lot of the polished folks in those upscale areas didn’t seem thrilled to have me browsing. Truth be told, I felt way more welcome back in Immokalee with the simple, hard-working people who just went about their day. Here’s a shot of me crashed out on the water just outside town at the Bear Point Canoe and Kayak launch - when you’ve been living in your truck camper every night for a few years, you get pretty creative finding quiet spots close enough to civilization without drawing too much attention.
After weeks bouncing between towns and beaches, I pointed my rig east and drove straight into the real Everglades, heart thumping a little harder with every mile the pavement turned to gravel and the world got wilder. Man, there’s nothing like that feeling - knowing you’re heading into one of the last truly raw, untamed places left in Florida, where cell signal fades and the only sounds are wind in the sawgrass and distant gator grunts. I’d blocked off a full week to disappear into it, no plans except chasing whatever the swamp threw at me. It felt primitive in the best way, like stepping back in time to when Florida was still half-wild - just me, the truck camper, and a million acres of nothing but water, sky, and whatever critters decided to show themselves. Pure freedom, a little edge-of-the-seat excitement, and the kind of quiet that resets your whole head.
My first stop was Fakahatchee Strand Preserve State Park and that Big Cypress Bend Boardwalk. Right off the bat you start seeing Florida alligators - big ol’ beasts lounging on the banks or half-submerged like they own the place, eyes just breaking the surface, watching you without blinking. The boardwalk kicks off in this open stretch with scattered cypress trees and bright sky overhead, easy walking and plenty of room to breathe, but then it slowly pulls you deeper. The canopy closes in, everything turns lush and tropical - thick vines, massive ferns, air so humid it feels alive - and the trail winds into this shadowy, primeval forest that smells like wet earth and mystery. Every step feels like you’re slipping further into the real Everglades, heart beating a bit faster wondering what’s around the next bend.
One evening, kicking back in the camper with my map under the little LED light after a full day in the swamp, I traced my finger and realized I was just north of Everglades City - somebody along the way, maybe a ranger or another camper, had mentioned it as a spot worth hitting if I was this close, so I thought why not give it a go. The next morning I packed up, headed south, and decided to settle in for a few days to soak up the end-of-the-road vibe. My first stop was the brand-new Gulf Coast Visitor Center at Everglades National Park, right on the water with killer views of the mangrove channels and Ten Thousand Islands stretching out forever. I stepped inside, grabbed fresh maps, talked boat tours and paddle trails with the rangers, and felt that salty breeze hit me as I walked out - already buzzing with excitement about the week ahead, pushing deeper into the Everglades, spotting wildlife up close, and losing myself in that vast, wild maze where the only schedule is sunrise and sunset.
Four Mile Cove Eco Preserve is this peaceful 365-acre brackish wetland in Cape Coral, right along the Caloosahatchee River. The winding boardwalk cuts through thick mangroves and gives you solid shots at spotting herons, ibis, eagles, raccoons, and maybe an alligator or two if you’re lucky. It’s one of the bigger preserved spots around, with a visitor center, observation piers, and strict rules - no dogs, no bikes, just quiet walking. I spent a solid hour strolling the loop trail, taking it easy on the shaded boardwalk and shell paths, listening to the birds and watching the water ripple. It was relaxing as heck - felt like a real break from everything, just me, the mangroves, and whatever critters decided to show up.
After a few weeks of camping and messing around along the Gulf Coast, I got the itch to head inland and see what rural Florida was really like. I pulled out my map, spotted Immokalee, and thought, yeah, that’s the spot. It’s way out in the middle of nowhere, surrounded by farms, and from what I’d heard about 90% of the folks there are undocumented immigrants, mostly working the fields. As this old white guy with long hair, a beard, and a beat-up overland rig that looks half military, I figured it’d be interesting - probably stick out like a sore thumb, but that’s kinda the point when you’re hunting real places off the usual tourist path.
Nights, I started hanging out at the outdoor flea market. Man, it was hot and humid - it reminded me of some of the places I deployed to when I was younger. At first everybody was staring at me like, “Who the heck is this guy?” I just kept showing up, buying food, some fruit, whatever looked good, and actually enjoying the eats - some Guatemalan stuff and solid Mexican tacos. After a couple nights people loosened up. The young men would nod, the young ladies would sheepishly smile. The kids cracked me up the most - they couldn’t stop staring at my beard. Pointing, giggling, a few brave ones even reached out to touch it like it was some kind of weird pet. Turned what started out awkward into pretty fun evenings.
Just seven miles south of Immokalee sits this planned town called Ave Maria, built in the mid-2000s around Ave Maria University by the Domino’s Pizza founder Tom Monaghan as a Catholic-focused community with the massive church smack in the center. Since it was the weekend, I decided to go to the Low Latin Mass there on Sunday at 12:30. Felt right to experience it in a spot built for that kind of traditional worship.
I’m not usually into modern church designs - most feel cold or stripped down - but the interior of this one really took my breath away. Exposed steel beams arch way up high, giving it a strong, almost industrial feel mixed with real grandeur, and there’s this massive suspended crucifix hanging above the altar, throwing dramatic shadows as the light hits it. Flanking the tabernacle are big wooden statues of the twelve apostles, standing tall and serious, with the Blessed Virgin Mary and St. Joseph on the outsides watching over them all. What really got to me, though, was watching the families show up - lots pulling in on golf carts or walking from nearby, the men in nice suits or at least button-up shirts and ties, every woman and girl in long dresses and chapel veils. Everybody looked happy, smiling, greeting each other like it was the most natural thing. Sitting there, I thought, man, this must be what a lot of America looked like a hundred years ago - simple, peaceful, centered on faith and family. Beautiful sight.
After heading south a bit, I spent some time touring Naples and Marco Island - driving the fancy streets lined with palm trees, peeking at the beaches, and checking out the high-end spots. One planned stop was Exquisite Timepieces, this sleek luxury watch shop packed with serious men’s pieces from Glashütte Original, H. Moser & Cie., Blancpain, and others - my goal is to thin my collection by selling three at a time and then treating myself to one new watch. Once again I got the stares; I rolled in looking (and probably smelling) like I’d been sleeping rough along the coast and out by the Everglades - long hair tangled, beard wild, clothes from days on the trail - and a lot of the polished folks in those upscale areas didn’t seem thrilled to have me browsing. Truth be told, I felt way more welcome back in Immokalee with the simple, hard-working people who just went about their day. Here’s a shot of me crashed out on the water just outside town at the Bear Point Canoe and Kayak launch - when you’ve been living in your truck camper every night for a few years, you get pretty creative finding quiet spots close enough to civilization without drawing too much attention.
After weeks bouncing between towns and beaches, I pointed my rig east and drove straight into the real Everglades, heart thumping a little harder with every mile the pavement turned to gravel and the world got wilder. Man, there’s nothing like that feeling - knowing you’re heading into one of the last truly raw, untamed places left in Florida, where cell signal fades and the only sounds are wind in the sawgrass and distant gator grunts. I’d blocked off a full week to disappear into it, no plans except chasing whatever the swamp threw at me. It felt primitive in the best way, like stepping back in time to when Florida was still half-wild - just me, the truck camper, and a million acres of nothing but water, sky, and whatever critters decided to show themselves. Pure freedom, a little edge-of-the-seat excitement, and the kind of quiet that resets your whole head.
My first stop was Fakahatchee Strand Preserve State Park and that Big Cypress Bend Boardwalk. Right off the bat you start seeing Florida alligators - big ol’ beasts lounging on the banks or half-submerged like they own the place, eyes just breaking the surface, watching you without blinking. The boardwalk kicks off in this open stretch with scattered cypress trees and bright sky overhead, easy walking and plenty of room to breathe, but then it slowly pulls you deeper. The canopy closes in, everything turns lush and tropical - thick vines, massive ferns, air so humid it feels alive - and the trail winds into this shadowy, primeval forest that smells like wet earth and mystery. Every step feels like you’re slipping further into the real Everglades, heart beating a bit faster wondering what’s around the next bend.
One evening, kicking back in the camper with my map under the little LED light after a full day in the swamp, I traced my finger and realized I was just north of Everglades City - somebody along the way, maybe a ranger or another camper, had mentioned it as a spot worth hitting if I was this close, so I thought why not give it a go. The next morning I packed up, headed south, and decided to settle in for a few days to soak up the end-of-the-road vibe. My first stop was the brand-new Gulf Coast Visitor Center at Everglades National Park, right on the water with killer views of the mangrove channels and Ten Thousand Islands stretching out forever. I stepped inside, grabbed fresh maps, talked boat tours and paddle trails with the rangers, and felt that salty breeze hit me as I walked out - already buzzing with excitement about the week ahead, pushing deeper into the Everglades, spotting wildlife up close, and losing myself in that vast, wild maze where the only schedule is sunrise and sunset.
