I went with a fab fours Matrix for the front, but on the recommendation of my installer (Auto Concepts) Helena MT, I went with the Rough Country rear bumper. Their front bumper isn't sticking it in your face AND, my installer says for the money/value, they can't be beat. The rear is 650 bucks including the cube lights. The front is like 1200 bucks so, you can get what you want both front and back for less than most front bumpers... The front seems to meet your criteria
https://www.roughcountry.com/ram-front-led-bumper-10806a.html?find=2022-ram-2500-4wd-856080 This vid is of the back but has a short piece at the end on the front
Now my installer noted that his main issue is NOT how they are built. He said its a decent design for installation, good metal, adequate welding and has extras like the cube lights as part of the package. He noted that after about four years you may have to re-finish the powder coat as he is having to do on his truck AND upon occasion he will see grinder marks under the powder coat, but he noted, at the price and value and core quality, they can't be touched even if you have to re-finish after three or four years, you are still way ahead of the competition...
I would have gone with them but after having an Iron Cross pre-runner on a 1500 save my behind here in Montana from a wayward deer, I wanted a bit more protection and surprisingly my wife likes the "in your face" look... Oh I first got a bumper for the reason you noted. All you have to do is look real hard at the OEM bumpers and they show the hit.