I'll start out with the fact that I absolutely can't stand gov overreach, and with most of the climate change concerns the gov seems to have moved way faster than the private sector can support, but that's a rant for another day. As an avid outdoorsman I'm also very interested in keeping our world clean as possible, the whole "leave no trace", or maybe more accurate would be just don't scorched earth.
I don't believe that deleting gets you much better fuel econ than emissions in-tact tuning. Guys can argue all day but unless someone has tuned both, with data that shows, it seems to mostly come down to a tuned vs stock, not an emissions on vs deleted. That said, benefit of the doubt let's say that a delete gets you a whopping 2mpg better than stock, and let's also say that you're driving 30k miles per year and diesel costs $3.32 per gal. That means after 10 years you've saved $5,500 in fuel costs by being deleted. That delete probably cost you over 2k in parts, but benefit of the doubt you saved $3,500 over the course of 10 years having spent that 2k up front. Now from what I've seen, the vast majority of guys doing deletes are also running 35-37s which basically completely destroys the argument for MPGs but I digress.
The limp mode seems to be far and away the biggest concern, as does the cost of eventual DPF replacement. Manufactures really need to find better solutions to this as it's clearly not an easy fix, and especially difficult for guys working in the oil fields and such. If I were in that position I'd be hard pressed not to delete.
The horsepower and torque argument seems also a little difficult. You're not going to build a monster track truck or sled puller with emissions on, granted, but the newer trucks have quite a bit of headroom. Nick over at calibrated just ran 650 HP on his emissions on powerstroke, with just a drop in turbo and tuning, and the 5th gen cummins has a larger DPF, so it should have less restriction and more opportunity to get high HP.
I wish that the technology was 100% reliable, or that an issue didn't limp you into being stuck, and more. I don't hate on anyone deleting their trucks, but to be frank I'd say that about 80% of guys are looking to delete because sound, "power", and just to give the gov a big ole middle finger. All the reasons behind it just back up the decision they had already planned on and give them a stronger argument as to the "why". Not everyone is like that, but I'd wager a vast majority are. This is not to say that their isn't a lot of soapboxing from the emissions on crowd, as there is, but I'm just calling out what I'm seeing.