@Rockcrawlerdude I am not sure of the exact ratings of the Carli R2 coils, but they
may suit your needs as they seem to hold at least 2500lbs and still have space between the bumpstops (
carli blogpost about the R2 coils). I agree the Thuren coils are too soft for your use case. I'm currently running them and while they are amazing riding coils, I've realized I wanted to go another direction with the truck and am currently planning on swapping for the Carli R2 coils.
Thuren also makes a nice spacer kit for the rear (
link) that bolts on so you don't have to worry about shifting or noise on more spirited drives. The nice thing is that it allows for adjustments in 1/2" increments from 5/8" to 1 3/8" lift.
As you mentioned, everyones use case is different and softer springs alone are not always the answer.