This is good information. I know it is only one dealer, but they got in a truck with an AA relay for testing where you had disconnected the relay. Then then tested that disconnected relay and it failed. Possibly at least. I suppose they could have misread the recall and saw the AA and just noted it as a bad one needing to be replaced with an AB and did not actually do the temperature test.
It appears they gave you no pushback about having disconnected the relay?
When they determined it was a bad one, they left it as you had it, disconnected, and returned the truck to you to use until the AB relay is available.
Hopefully we will get similar reports from others. So far, unless I have missed them, this is the first report of a relay being noted as bad. Some have posted that if your relay is bad, the dealer will hold your truck until parts are available. I suppose any individual dealer could do whatever they feel the need to. At least having some reports of dealers letting trucks with failed relays remain in use will be encouraging.