Ive had my ram for just under two years and I also drive a few different vehicles each day. I do a lot of comparing even if by accident (one has R left and up on the stick and my car is right and down) etc
To me, the ram feels very heavy when you’re in normal braking scenarios around town. I don’t think “soft” or “spongy” would be the correct terms to use, as that indicates air in the line. I would describe as More brake pedal travel or lots of brake booster maybe. But, you can definitely feel the weight of the truck. If you really need the brakes in a hurry, they feel different. The ram brakes are excellent when called upon.
My truck is a hemi, I think the diesel trucks have different brake boosters.